Chalk Talk from 2018

Have a seat at your desk, grab a pen and a notebook and take some notes. Here are a few lessons that I have learned in 2018 that will make 2019 even better.

  1. Everything starts in your gut. Illness and intuition. Listen to both very carefully.

  2. Facebook and Instagram listen to you just like Spotify. So listen carefully.

  3. Many women use the hashtag “#empowerwomen, according to stats; women scroll, men actually read, and like. Come on ladies. Get it together. We are all one!

  4. If you think they’re shady, you are probably correct.

  5. Don’t let anyone threaten you, bully you and take your money if you are not sure where it’s going.

  6. Boundaries: Have them and never let them go.

  7. Celery Juice, Yarrow Pom, Coffee Enemas!! Enough Said.

  8. Busy is negative. Productive is positive.

  9. I run my business, you mind your own.

  10. Never let social media bring you down. Connect with people outside of your bubble. There are beautiful, authentic people all over the world. Use social media to expand your bubble.

  11. High School is no joke. It has changed since 1989.

  12. Hire a study habits coach. (Helpme FIND ONE PLEASE)

  13. Stick with your philosophy. ALWAYS

  14. Church has certainly changed. Check it out! You will be surprised.

  15. Contemplative Prayer.

  16. There is a angel looking over my angel.

  17. Get your BOOBIES checked.

  18. Sports bras are painful. Coobie is like wearing nothing! (shop local)

  19. I have the coolest pets. SPIRIT ANIMALS.

  20. Find people that inspire you, not bring you down.

  21. Essential Oils work. FOR EVERYTHING.

  22. Menopause is not bad and it DOES NOT make you fat. (#1)

  23. Always remember the past, it dictates your future. Don’t get stuck there.

  24. Haters are a reflection of themselves. Keep in mind it is a sign that you are on a path towards success.

  25. Stillness.

  26. SUPERSOUL Conversations.

  27. Grey hair is another sign of authenticity.

  28. Creativity ROCKS at 4:00am. So does the algorithm.

  29. Journals are therapy.

  30. Don’t be scared to create and share. There’s a whole world out there that will find you inspiring.

  31. You never know what someone else is going through.

  32. Utah is loaded with nature, beauty and healthy places to eat.

  33. Wizard of US

  34. Grapes are good for your kidneys.

  35. Anthony Williams.

  36. Declutter your house to declutter your mind. Sometimes you need a local pro to do the job!

  37. Renting a home ROCKS!!

  38. Never let anyone take you off your path.

  39. Podcasts are fun.

  40. Doctors really don’t know much about mystery illnesses. Let’s keep it that way so they don’t put regulations on holistic healing alternatives.

  41. Chlorella is a game changer. (buy local)

  42. Holistic Healing is the way to go. Maryjo is the best!!

I hope everyone has a great holiday and the best 2019!!!

There will be bumps like every year, but keep going. Be authentic always.

Create but don’t steal. Look for genuine, real inspiration.

Smile always. Resting bitch faces are not attractive.

SHINE Bright.

Stay focused.

Be You.

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Your Future is Influenced by the Past

Yes, it certainly is...

Do you know that your current feelings, your personality traits and your behavior were shaped by the past events you have been through? Your past is currently affecting your present. You have to be tuned in, willing to identify and think. And that is what I did during this snow fall we had and to be honest, I am blown away. Most of you may fully understand what I have written below, some may not; but you will. Read carefully and you will understand and read the proof that the past has shaped me for where I am right now. Enjoy!!

What the diamond and car business taught me about life and how it has incorporated in my life now.
Two of my most important careers was in the diamond district in 1995 until 2001 and the car business from 2006-2015

The two are so very different with many hidden things in common. Both dealing with metal, high priced items, both luxuries (depending on the car obviously), one is a necessity (depending on the woman). Ha

Did you know that platinum, palladium and rhodium are used for catalyst converters in automobiles as well as in the jewelry business? Just a bit of useless knowledge. But it all makes sense now.

Read carefully on this journey and what it has brought into my life years later.
Amazing.

I started working for a large diamond wholesale company doing billing and data entry, I worked hard. Arriving early and staying late. Driven and interested in learning more. And that I did. I then became assistant account executive, then account executive then Manager of loose diamonds.

Then hard work paid off. I was approached by an Indian company to do merchandising for the jewelry line. No brainer. I accepted.

I traveled to India monthly for quality control on the jewelry I designed before it shipped to NYC and before the inspectors of the large retail chains inspected it.

Going to Bombay was one of the best experiences I have had. I traveled alone. Every month staying for 12 days at a time.
Learning so much about the business, the culture and myself. I met amazing people and learned in my early 20’s how lucky we are here in America and how much we take for granted. I lost 10 pounds every trip, I made friends, I was invited to their homes, to night clubs, and to birthday parties. No judgments. They welcomed me with open arms. They walk a lot. Some who were lucky enough to have automobiles that is; drove far distances without complaining. To see their friends, to the market, to meditate, to the clubs and obviously to work.

Living in NYC during this time, I worked hard. I didn’t socialize too much. Once in a while happy hour with co workers or meeting Maria in the Village. To get our belly button pierced or dinner and a beer. She was my only friend from home living in NYC. She was in the Village and I was on the upper east side. She had her own business and I was working for a big company traveling. We both worked our asses off.

Fast forward to 2006.
Divorced. Needed a career after staying home with the kids. Couldn’t go back to New York with a 4 year old and two year old. Needed a job. And that I found.
Answering leads part time for a Saturn Dealership. I learned, I grew.
Motivated, determined.
I bought a fixer upper in Brielle. It needed lots of work and money. I did it. Alone. Working hard.

“Moving Forward” to Toyota. Internet Manager. Managing people and leads. As the internet grew, so did I. Marketing, traveling, managing. 

A “boys club” and pretty intimidating at first. I wasn’t as mentally strong as I am now, but boy did that change in the car business. You definitely need thick skin, stand your ground and not be intimidated by anyone. 

Why did this snow bring me to write?
Big storm in 96. I walked 40 blocks to work. I had work to do. No excuses, no hoping the office would be closed. I had work to do. Worked that I loved. I walked. In the snow.

In the car business, well; they don’t close. Even the biggest storms. And here’s a news flash for everyone that doesn’t know much about the business. There is no machine or service that cleans off the cars after a snow storm. It’s the employees. Men and women!!! Every car and truck.
I remember driving in a huge storm, knowing I had to be there to help. I did.

Get it??

Putting the pieces together years later. Getting closer.....

People have flaws. Just like diamonds. You need to sort through the ones that are dull and have negative energy.

Move to a big city, even if it’s all by yourself. You never know who’s there and will be by your side in years to come.

Travel. As much as you can, wherever it may be. Go alone at least once.

Welcome new friends. In your home, out for coffee or to a yoga class. Make everyone feel comfortable no matter what skin color, shape, size or gender.

“ Suck it up and press on”. Never let anyone intimidate you.
Work hard even if you don’t want to do something.
Be mentally strong. In any business. You never know if you will travel to another country alone or work in a environment where it’s necessary. Keep going. Keep Moving Forward.

Luxury items are not important. It doesn’t make you happier. Traveling to India made me realize, less is more. They were the happiest people I have ever met. Some with no shoes on their feet, children with no clothes. One room homes. But smiling. Welcoming. No judging. They practice yoga in cotton, loose fitting clothes. “Materials that are tight fitting and compress the body are not right for a practice that is centered around breath”. Many wear Saris. (I have a few)

Work hard.
Walk if needed to get you were you need to be.
Have thick skin.
Be a team player.
Keep moving forward.
Shine.

Choose the people that sparkle with love and light, guide and inspire the ones who need a shine, and remove the “Bad Cut Diamonds”- “a bad diamond cut result has to do with the choices the diamond cutter made. He may have had the bad luck of being saddles with big carbon inclusions that were naturally occurring in all the wrong places in the rough diamond crystal. The cutter took the hand he was dealt and made his choices and they didn’t include what would clear the most light”.

A well cut cut diamond shines and sparkles and shows fire.

Be “DRIVEN”
“Shine Bright”
Be Reliable

Here I am in 2018, putting pieces together from the past that have impacted where I am today. 

Walking in storms, shoveling after the storm, and now opening for classes in a storm.

A hard worker, owner of The "Non-Intimidating" Yoga Studio. A studio that welcomes everyone with open arms and no fancy attire necessary. A few drive long distances; others may complain.

I have removed people from my life that were wearing me down, bringing me down. and speaking down. Working hard with a friend from the past. She lives north now and I live south, but we found our way to meet once again, years later. Teaching yoga.

(maybe tattoo next?)


The impact your past has on your present is so powerful. You need to learn how to connect with it in a positive way. Be open to it. You will be amazed at what comes up.